Dress Code Ideas & Rules of Engagement for the Burlesque Ball

Dress Code Ideas & Rules of Engagement for the Burlesque Ball


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Dress Code Ideas & Rules of Engagement for the Burlesque Ball

Here are some ideas for your “attire” on Saturday night (Burlesque Ball) – and we say attire very lightly.

The Burlesque Ball is the celebration of the classical art of the strip tease… the first step of seduction.

In the past, the ladies in attendance have worn bras, bustiers, corsets, garter belts and fishnet stockings, high-heels, nipple pasties, and other sexy lingerie items. We suggest wearing multiple layers so that as you start to feel more adventurous throughout the night, you can start to remove certain pieces, to entice your own personal audience!

For the gentlemen, we suggest dressing elegantly, wearing nice pants, a stylish shirt, suspenders, vests, top hats, and more fashionable items from the 1920s to 1940s eras. Please take note that blue jeans are not permitted.

The most important thing is to feel comfortable in whatever you choose to wear and that you make an effort to match the theme of the event.


Think of the Burlesque Ball as a sensual soirée, marrying a threesome of perfection: an amazing dance event, the sexiest and most daring clientele, and world class performances… all in the luxurious atmosphere of The X Club!

Get your tickets here!

Rules of Engagement for The Burlesque Ball: Code of conduct

Monde Osé and The X Club are all about love, acceptance, tolerance and respect; and the goal of our parties is to have fun and safely explore your sensuous side at your own pace.

We have created some guidelines that we ask every member to follow in order to encourage a fun and healthy environment. It is fundamental that all invited guests understand and adhere to the guidelines so that every person can enjoy their evening with the knowledge that the following common courtesies are to be expected.

Women are the essence of our parties. They are the central focus of the evening and most importantly, set the rules and the limits. Women should feel comfortable to play as they please without any advances or hassles from unsolicited people.

Women should never feel uncomfortable to reject any advance. However, please make an attempt to be courteous. If you feel you are being disrespected, please advise an organizer of the event or see a security agent so that they can be aware of unbecoming behaviours of the specific attendee.

Invited guests should understand and respect even the subtlest signs of a “no” (i.e. that someone is not interested).

Flirtation, kissing and touching is encouraged with permission from your playmates… building up sexual tension throughout the night. For more adventurous guests, there are designated areas within The X Club for when the moment begins to intensify, and the privacy of hotel accommodations nearby.


Excessive drinking, to the point of disrupting other guests’ fun, will lead to immediate expulsion.

Men should remember that it is a privilege to be at this party. With this in mind, male guests are expected to be charming, chivalrous, friendly, receptive to non-verbal signals and never dominating or aggressive.

However, even if a man embodies all of these traits, a lack of attraction and/or chemistry with a woman is possible. If rejected, men should be courteous and not offended. Every woman has different tastes. Remember, it is important for women to always lead the way. That is not to say that men cannot flirt with a woman, but that they should be aware of their reactions.

Using good judgment about your own behavior and being respectful of other guests at the party are the essential points to consider coming into The Burlesque Ball and any party hosted by Monde Ose and The X Club.

Get ready for a sexy new experience this Saturday night!

Get your tickets here!

Looking forward to seeing you there!



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